An Earnest Summer: Keeping Homeschool, Light, Fun and Faith Filled.

An Earnest Summer: Keeping Homeschool, Light, Fun and Faith Filled.

Because learning does not stop when the sun comes out. Free printables below.

When summer rolls in, many of us homeschool parents face the same obstacle. We long to keep our learning rhythms built throughout the school year. However, we also want the freedom and rest of summer. The good news? We do not have to choose between learning and rest, we can do both!

In our home, we follow a gentle yet simple, heart-led summer rhythm to keep learning alive but not overwhelm. Join me as I share how we will make a meaningful summer and avoid burn out. There are even FREE printables to help us get started. Cheer’s to a summer of love, learning and grace!

Summer does not mean an end to learning for the homeschool family. What we do is shift our approach to the summer months. We bring in more reading time – be sure to check out your local libraries for their FREE summer reading programs (Erie County Residents, here is ours). Copy work or scripture readings for each week, just once a week is easy as pie. Real world mathematics, whether through baking, grocery store visits or budgeting for a new bike – get them involved. Another fun idea is nature journaling – keep it easy, just a clipboard, paper and pencil. We can sit outside together and draw what we hear, or write words describing sounds, smells and textures. Let’s be creative and explore different spaces around our towns or cities. At the end of the summer, compare and choose all the favorite spots. Long drives? Listen to audiobooks or interesting podcasts. Choose some that relate to what we learned last year so there are familiar roots to build on. This heart-lead approach has a light touch while we build deep roots.

Summer time can be a time for delightful discovery. Instead of formal lesson plans, we can follow our children’s interests. Want to learn about birds? Let’s grab a birding book from the library, download a birding app and put out some bird feed! Sit in our own window and watch or head to a local park and see what we can see! Have a kiddo curious about baking? We can roll up our sleeves, pull out the flour and print some recipes to do together. Or maybe our child asking some big God questions. Grab a notebook and the bible. See what we can glean together. Summer gives freedom to be wonder-led, something that is easily carried into the coming school year too.

Be sure to make room for the extras in the summer. This is a special time that we can lean into things we may skip through the year. Say YES to handicrafts and creative play, bible memorization, music/nature studies, service projects. Choose more family traditions or vacation time. Consider spontaneous field trips. Let our kids choose something within a 1-hour drive away. Take the bus to the library and donate books we are not using. These extras can become the essence of learning being lead by the heart.

Finally, let’s remember that rest is not laziness, it’s sacred. Our families do not need to “keep up.” We need to take time to refresh, slow down and sit back a little. Let’s let summer be marked with slow, long mornings. Barefoot afternoons with books and tea. Popsicles on the porch and sliced watermelon in the lawn. What our kids will remember most will not be what they completed. They will remember how they feel, with us, right where they belong.

Mama, our summers do not have to be busy to be beautiful. Let’s allow this season to be one of connection, peace and gentle learning. Low in pressure, high in family time. Ask the Lord to guide our days, and trust He can do more with our small offerings than we could even imagine.

We are not just getting through, or surviving summer – we are planting seeds that will bear fruit for a lifetime. Remember mama, we are in this together, one Earnest MOMent at a time.

Love, Earnest Mom

Earnest Mom’s FREE Summer Printables – click to print:

Heart-led Summer Checklist

Summer Scripture Memory Cards

Dear Earnest Mom: A Letter to the Me Who Just Started Homeschooling.

Dear Earnest Mom: A Letter to the Me Who Just Started Homeschooling.

Dear Earnest Mom,

Five years ago, you were tired and overthinking. You’ve doubted all of your abilities. You were definitely holding a cup of coffee that went cold hours ago. You said “yes” to something both exciting and terrifying: homeschooling.

I see you. You are second guessing EVERYTHING. You are listening to those around you tell you things you actually believe. “Children need socialization.” “You can’t, you have a toddler.” “You do not have the space.” “It is expensive.” “I am worried they won’t learn.”

You feel the overwhelming need to have 100 printed worksheets. Little desks should be lined in row. This space definitely needs a chalkboard. You are imagining creating a mini public school in your home. You are planning schedule charts, you have thousands on pins on your newly minted “Home School” Pinterest Board. You need to school for 6-8 hours a day per kid. Plus, you need to do it perfectly.

Let me just stop you. Hold on to both your shoulders. I would look you straight in the eye. Then take a deep breath in; and exhale “mama, you do not have to do any of this.” Breathe in again, and exhale, “you are more capable than you know.”

Here is what I would tell you, if I could sit across from you at the dinner table. The soon to be home school table. If I could, I would pour you a fresh hot cup of coffee. Your amazing children would be playing to and fro. Their couch fort would collapse to the sound of their laughter.

  1. You DO NOT need to recreate school at home. Your children will learn. It may happen slowly, but that real learning often happens curled up on the couch, or reading aloud at the kitchen table. It happens in the kitchen, baking bread and talking fractions. Together you will learn taking walks in the gorge, visiting museums and delivering a kind card to a friend. Learning happens everywhere – do not let the idea of institutional school inspire what you need to do. You know your children, you love your children, you will teach them just the ways they need.
  2. You are allowed to go slow. There is NO “behind” in home school. There is ONLY your pace and your children – exactly where they are at. Some years will feel productive and done in ease. Others will feel like you are playing a game of Jumanji. Both count-remember learning happens everywhere.
  3. You will grow right alongside them. Home school is not just about shaping their minds. It is also shaping your heart. As you walk, the Lord as your lead, you will learn to let go and let God. You will learn to see where you lack, He gives the increase. You will gain the opportunity to know them deeply. This journey will be sacred, though not always smooth. You will learn with patience, humility, and the blessing of slowing down. You will mess up, but grace – sweet grace will meet you there every time.
  4. It’s okay to change things up. Best laid plans, and all that. That color coded calendar, printed out curriculum – it all could change by November. That routine that you planned so well, it could crumble with a stomach bug. You are not failing – you are using your wisdom. You will pivot things in prayer, trust your instincts, and learn to do what works for YOUR family.
  5. You do not have to do this alone. Find your people mama. Your community will carry you. It could be your bestie who has decided to home school too. It could be an encouraging mom from your local MomCo group. Perhaps it’s your sister who picks up every time you call. You were never meant to carry this by yourself, you were called for more.
  6. Fruit takes time mama, be patient. There will be days, SO MANY DAYS when it feels like nothing is sticking. You will wondering if anything that you do matters. You’ll worry they are not learning anything. Then, one day, you’ll hear them explain something you taught them, or a prayer you prayed with them. You will receive compliments of how mature they are. They carry conversations with adults easily. Their respectfulness shows in their top-notch manners! Then, right then, you will see it. The fruit. Lovely. Quiet. Steady. Beautiful.

So, breathe deep mama. You don’t need to have it all worked out today. God’s mercies will be new again tomorrow morning. There will be coffee and the read-alouds. The mess and the wonder will be there too.

You’ve got this — not because you’re perfect, but because you’re called. One Earnest MOMent at a time.

With love and grace, Earnest Mom. (Just a touch greyer, a bit softer, and still in awe of this wild, holy home school life).

Grace over Chaos: Earnestly Homeschooling Multiple Ages.

Grace over Chaos: Earnestly Homeschooling Multiple Ages.

In my wee early home school days, I was overwhelmed. The idea of having to break my day up between three children was daunting. Their age levels and individual curriculum made it even harder. I didn’t want to feel exhausted. I thought to schedule each separately. I wanted to leave lots of time for independent work. However, I learned quickly that independent work was not reasonable for a then 9, 5 and 2 year old. It’s worth noting the 2 year old was not being schooled. Then I found Gather ‘Round.

This is not a sponsored review just a recommendation from one home school family to another. Gather ‘Round has saved my sanity. This is curriculum is a Charlotte Mason approach that is rich in literature and hands on activities. What I love most is that there is one lesson, yes, ONE LESSON for all children. Keep in mind that a parent reads the lesson. This takes about 20-30 minutes if you use resources. Then each child has their own developmentally appropriate workbook. With a high-schooler, upper elementary and early reader, their time spent on each lesson in their workbook varies.

Our home school day starts in the afternoon. I let my children sleep and get all of the rest their growing brains need. This means wake up times are staggered. It looks like 8 am for our 7-year-old, 9 am for our 10-year-old, and sometimes 9:30/10 am. We get chores and breakfast done before noon. Then lunch followed by lessons from 1-3:30. I love having slow, easy mornings. This is especially true in the summer when the best time to be outside is before 11 am!

Starting at 1 pm we have a read aloud, a chapter book that goes along with our unit that month. We choose all of our units at the start of the school year. This way, each kiddo gets a say in what we learn. I find if they choose they stay interested longer. After the read aloud, we jump right into the lesson. Then workbook time, while the younger two finish up earlier than my high school kiddo, they get math in. Once my oldest is done his workbook, he moves into independent math work. The rest of the day is ours to spend in any way we would like! Some days we get it all done perfectly, other days we finish early due to life demands. What I love most about home school is we get to make it work for our family and our needs.

When we first started I thought I had replicate what institutional school looked like, at home. I learned after year 2 that it does not have to be that way. If I am being honest, I felt more pressure from others to make home school look like the institution. The freedom we found when we realized it does not have to be that way was liberating. We get to go at our pace, in our time, with our interests. I had to stop letting people influence us. These people are not teaching our children. They are not raising our children. We did it. We started our own path. Of course, following all of our state home school laws in the process.

The sanity saving for me was letting go of the performance mindset. Performing how education, socialized, etc, that my children were for others to see. Stop performing institution school at home, and allowing my children to bloom into the people God made them to be. Giving us the freedom to go at our pace, never behind, just always right where we should be. This grace is something I have to remind myself of daily. For my children, I found it is necessary to offer grace and lots and lots of snacks!

Every home school is just as diverse as the families are every where. This is simply what works for us!